From here to there!

Moving on is really hard to do.. well not only hard but painful as well. But at one point in time, you would feel the  "kick" you've been waiting for to wake up and face it.


Me? I felt the kick last March 29. The kick was so hard it knocked me down but when I woke up on the 30th of March... I was once again alive.


And yeah I'm moving on!


... and I'm doing it MY STYLE :)


MY STYLE #1 : Cry... alot!!

Well I think it's just human to cry your eyes out after the break up... surely it would take long and I think it's just natural. Others would think that you're over reacting about it but you're actually not. It's painful, so it's ok to cry :)


My friends always tell me that i shouldn't cry and i should be strong instead. But hey! masking and pretending doesn't equate to being strong either! So whenever you feel sad or you feel like crying... just do :) You know it's healthy :)


MY STYLE #2 : Work your fingers!


I'm advising girls to do this one. Write down the things that you feel whenever and whatever! It would help your healing! You can channel your feelings and put them into words. When you write.. you think of a lot of things and most of the time, realizations will come your way :) So better work those fingers! That's one of the greatest gift of God to girls :)


MY STYLE #3 : Pop the Bottles!


Drink! It's not a cure and I know that! but drinking allows me  to release extra tension within! Party hard :) Enjoy yourself! and yes after the party nothing has changed. But that's not my goal here! I don't drink and party to change something! My goal here is to laugh, enjoy, tire myself and feel the freedom even for just one crazy night! If you're going to do this.. don't let others enjoy you too :)


MY STYLE #4 : Fishes Talk!


I talk to other guys! Well that's what I learned. I used to believe that i should be isolated and stuff.. i realized I shouldn't be!! I'm healing but I'm not infectious :) haha! so i talk to them... IT helps me divert my attention especially those guys who like me :) and yeah i know it sounds kinda bitchy but hey! I'm single :) It won't harm me or anyone if i talk to them.. but I'm not engaging in anything serious and I'm not holding them up as well. we just talk.. Plus!!It brings back my lost self confidence! :)